tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post6572472895299646769..comments2023-05-25T11:25:30.254-04:00Comments on making molehills out of mountains through Him: Joy and PainEmmyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02100182709422069894noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post-2835386354469437502009-07-09T14:53:41.246-04:002009-07-09T14:53:41.246-04:00Have you thought about a cremation necklace? Then ...Have you thought about a cremation necklace? Then you can take a part of her with you wherever you go.Hollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post-62493884938916677942009-07-09T15:17:38.498-04:002009-07-09T15:17:38.498-04:00Do you have something of hers you can wear? A bit ...Do you have something of hers you can wear? A bit of her blanket you could make into a hanky you could put in your pocket? Something that you can just keep close to hold and touch?<br><br>Have fun at the picnic- your sandwich stuff sounds yummy!Kelly from Almost Frugalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18262457381862723092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post-12890018973178744952009-07-09T15:30:08.552-04:002009-07-09T15:30:08.552-04:00I want to come over right now and sample some of t...I want to come over right now and sample some of those brownie cups and then wash it down with a blondie. <br>After my husband and I picked up Ella's ashes, we went for a walk at the beach. I didn't want to leave her ashes in the car, so I placed them in my purse. As we were walking, we passed a park full of kids. I was devastated that I would never get to take Ella to the park and I so desperately wanted to put her little ashes on a swing and push them. I have also thought about taking her things with me when we leave the house. I think it's perfectly normal. It just sucks that we are not taking our babies with us.<br>Hope you enjoy the wedding. Sounds like it will be a nice weekend.Breehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03894396436704042272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post-10149049157001348682009-07-09T17:11:34.028-04:002009-07-09T17:11:34.028-04:00Oh sweet heart. There is nothing wrong with that, ...Oh sweet heart. There is nothing wrong with that, nothing at all. I totally get it. <br><br>Did you know there is also cremation jewelry you can buy? I actually really wanted Isaac to be cremated, but my family didn't agree. It REALLY bothers me that Isaac is arms length underground. He's mine. I want him back.Mistyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10497823064126116308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post-30334845493761124692009-07-09T17:28:15.665-04:002009-07-09T17:28:15.665-04:00When we go out of town we put Lily's ashes in ...When we go out of town we put Lily's ashes in our safe in the basement. I felt terribly guilty the first couple of times, but now my hubby does it for me with no questions asked.<br><br>I'm thinking of getting a cremation necklace~ maybe an idea for you, too.<br><br>I want to come to your house for dinner! Holy smokes sister, it sounds like you can cook!JenJenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02695243793883254621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post-44914171304160260542009-07-09T17:30:18.475-04:002009-07-09T17:30:18.475-04:00Thanks, guys. Now I don't feel like such a wa...Thanks, guys. Now I don't feel like such a wacko! Through, Bree, I don't know how I'd feel about pushing her urn in a swing. I'm probably too self-conscious, though.<br><br>Holly and Misty, I did think about the cremation jewelry. It sounds too risky to me, I'd be devastated if I lost it. Kelly, my husband bought me a necklace (I'll post a picture). <br><br>You guys are awesome, you know that?Emilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02100182709422069894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post-17193678395308608352009-07-09T21:21:29.852-04:002009-07-09T21:21:29.852-04:00I totally didn't push her ashes on the swing. ...I totally didn't push her ashes on the swing. I just wanted to! :)Breehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03894396436704042272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post-48316901233950132342009-07-10T00:43:07.673-04:002009-07-10T00:43:07.673-04:00I don't think there is a "normal", b...I don't think there is a "normal", but I think you should do what ever makes you feel better!KKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10815049701010983875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2189483120692966494.post-82893000360311483252009-07-10T09:14:26.349-04:002009-07-10T09:14:26.349-04:00I have not lost a child but I have to agree with K...I have not lost a child but I have to agree with Kimberly. There is no normal in losing a child and therefore no normal in how it is dealt with. In time the pain will ease, but for now you must do what you need to to get through each day.<br><br>Love you cyber sister.Sherylhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00916285811838792573noreply@blogger.com